Matching Horse with Rider.
Riding is most pleasurable when the horse and rider are in synch. Some riders will feel confident on a nervous horse, “up in the bridle” while others will be more comfortable on a quiet horse that needs more leg. I have been riding and playing polo for 40 years and have always preferred this type so it is not just a matter of experience. The key to a pleasurable ride is matching horse with rider.
Unfortunately, if you are taking lessons or are in a riding program where you cannot choose your mount this may not be an option.
What to do.
First of all, do not be discouraged and feel you are lacking as a rider if you cannot adjust to certain horses that may be assigned to you. There is nothing wrong with asking for the ones you prefer. Many instructors will insist that you use the one assigned. They will argue that dealing with a variety of mounts will challenge you to be a better rider. This is true but not as important for all riders many of whom have different skill levels and different goals. You can learn more and a lot quicker on a horse that builds your confidence and makes the experience fun.
When getting on a new mount there are a few things that you can do to give you the best chance for a good ride. First of all, ask for a little background information about the horse. How does he go? What should you watch out for (any bad habits etc.)
When you mount gather up the reins, first making sure they are not too loose or too tight and not twisted. Get on his back gently. Make sure your stirrups are adjusted properly before you walk off.
Now walk off. Some horses will want to trot or even canter almost immediately. This is especially true with the nervous type. It would be best if they would just walk but sometimes holding them back will just annoy them and it would be better to let them go at their own pace as long as they don’t get out of hand. If you feel that they are not under control ask for a different horse, but first give yourself and the horse a chance. In most cases, the horse will settle down and you will be ok. You must remember that they are not machines and need for you to make allowance for their needs.
Next, you may want to move ahead at walk or right into trot or canter for a few minutes. Give them a warm up. Give yourself a warm up too!! Then on with your ride and most of all have fun!!
Now walk off.